Common Signs:
- Feeling constantly tired, even after rest
- Withdrawing from friends and activities you once enjoyed
- Changes in appetite or sleep patterns
- Getting sick more often
- Feeling hopeless, helpless, or trapped
- Increased irritability with your loved one
- Difficulty concentrating
Why Dementia Caregiving is Particularly Challenging
Caring for someone with dementia is uniquely demanding because:
- The condition is progressive - care needs constantly increase
- Behavioral changes - aggression, wandering, repetitive questions
- Loss of recognition - your loved one may not remember you
- 24/7 vigilance - worry about safety even when you're not present
- Anticipatory grief - mourning the person they once were while still caring for them
The Cost of Ignoring Burnout
Untreated burnout affects:
- Your health: Higher risk of depression, anxiety, heart disease
- Quality of care: Exhausted caregivers can't provide optimal care
- Your relationships: Strain on family, friends, work
- Financial stability: Lost work hours, increased healthcare costs
Remember: Taking care of yourself isn't selfish - it's essential for providing good care. Why Exercise Matters with GDM
Physical activity:
- Helps your body use insulin more effectively
- Lowers blood sugar naturally
- Reduces need for medication/insulin
- Improves mood and energy
- Helps control pregnancy weight gain
- Makes labor and delivery easier
- Speeds postpartum recovery
Even 10-15 minutes after meals makes a significant difference.
Safe Exercise During Pregnancy
Best activities for GDM:
- Walking (easiest and most effective)
- Swimming or water aerobics
- Stationary bike
- Prenatal yoga
- Light resistance training
- Low-impact aerobics
Avoid:
- Contact sports
- Activities with fall risk (skiing, horseback riding)
- Hot yoga or overheating
- Lying flat on back after 20 weeks
- Anything that causes pain or discomfort
Always check with your doctor before starting new exercise.
The Post-Meal Walk Strategy
Most powerful tool: Walk after every meal
The routine:
- Finish eating
- Wait 15-30 minutes
- Walk for 10-20 minutes at comfortable pace
- Test blood sugar at scheduled time
Why it works:
- Muscles use glucose from bloodstream
- Reduces post-meal blood sugar spike
- Most effective time to exercise
Make it a habit: Meal → walk → test
Can't walk outside? March in place, do housework, climb stairs, dance to music.
Daily Movement Goals
Aim for:
- 30 minutes total daily (can split into 10-minute sessions)
- 3 post-meal walks minimum
- Plus: Stay generally active throughout day
Not an athlete? Start small:
- Week 1: 5 minutes after dinner
- Week 2: 5 minutes after lunch and dinner
- Week 3: 5 minutes after all three meals
- Week 4: Increase to 10 minutes each
Consistency beats intensity.
Managing Stress
Stress raises blood sugar through cortisol release.
Stress reduction techniques:
- Deep breathing (5 minutes, twice daily)
- Prenatal meditation apps (Expectful, Headspace)
- Gentle prenatal yoga
- Journaling
- Talking with supportive friend or therapist
- Limiting social media/news
- Saying no to non-essential commitments
Your mental health affects your blood sugar. Prioritize calm.
Sleep and Blood Sugar
Poor sleep raises blood sugar and increases insulin resistance.
Better sleep strategies:
- Consistent bedtime/wake time
- Dark, cool room
- Pregnancy pillow for comfort
- No screens 1 hour before bed
- Small protein snack before bed (prevents overnight lows)
- Empty bladder right before bed
- Short afternoon nap if needed (not after 3pm)
Aim for 7-9 hours nightly.
Staying Hydrated
Water helps:
- Flush excess glucose through kidneys
- Prevent urinary tract infections (more common with GDM)
- Reduce pregnancy swelling
- Prevent constipation
- Support increased blood volume
Goal: 8-10 glasses (64-80oz) daily
Tips:
- Carry water bottle everywhere
- Drink glass with each meal
- Set hourly reminders
- Add lemon or cucumber for flavor
- Herbal tea counts (caffeine-free)
Avoid: Juice, soda, sweetened drinks, excessive caffeine
When to Call Your Doctor
Contact healthcare team if:
- Blood sugar consistently above target despite following plan
- Blood sugar below 60 mg/dL
- Ketones in urine (you'll be given strips to test)
- Severe headache, vision changes
- Decreased fetal movement
- Symptoms of preeclampsia (sudden swelling, severe abdominal pain)
- You're sick (illness raises blood sugar)
- You can't keep food down (vomiting)
Don't wait if something feels wrong. Better to call unnecessarily than wait too long.